SpiKeD Q80

I keep thinking twice before I post now. I think of the topics I want to write about and the consequences that might occur if I post about anything.

I do believe that everyone is entitled to their own opinion. However, some people just can’t take other peoples opinion. To top that, they would even make you feel like a low life or something. although I stick to my opinions, sometimes I just have to live with it. Anyway I shouldn’t really care about this, i respect other peoples opinions and should stick to mine.

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Married Life and the Society

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I thought when someone gets married he would be faithful and that he is happy he did the right thing. However, I have seen the opposite when I talk to married men. I noticed that there is more cheaters than faithful ones. I do not care what they do , it is their life after all. I am just wondering why would someone go through all the marriage stuff to end up cheating? on top of that they would say they are in love with their wives!

See our society gives mixed thoughts about marriage:

1- Marriage to keep you from sinning – I doubt marriage will keep you from sinning. I believe sinning occurs when you are not strong enough to hold back.

2- Marriage to build a family – Yes who doesn’t want to see his kids grow and see them get married one day? but is marriage only about kids and to keep the family name?

3- Marriage for love- I agree 100% on this type of marriage. I believe the couple have to be 100% in love before they get married.

4- Forced Marriage- Unfortunately, our society still has a huge amount of people who force their daughters and sons to get married.

Of course after you get married the people around you would change who you are towards your wife. They keep joking on who has “control” over the other. Again something that just can’t stop. For example, the wedding ring. I wear my wedding ring all the time and people would just make a fuss about it like how my wife just “makes” me wear it, but actually I am proud to wear it. I am proud I am married and I am proud of my wife. Notice how many married men do not wear their wedding rings and ask yourself why.

Another thing, when people say oh married men can’t have fun “like traveling”. First, if I had an opportunity to travel my first choice would be with my wife. I barely travel due to many reasons, and if the time comes I’d rather spend it with my wife. Now some guys would say, “oh please your wife won’t let you” or “Your married you won’t be fun”. I don’t know but who said being married makes your life end?

Married life is not the end of the road, but its the beginning of a new road that could be a much easier ride.

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MP’s and Kuwait
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Well one of the Islamic MP’s who does not stand up for the national anthem yet represents Kuwait has been making a big fuss in the past few days.

He wants to stop swim suits, early closing of Shisha places and talk about the veil and neqab.

1- Swim suits – if you do not want to see them then do not go to places where there are these stuff.

2- Shisha places – you are kidding me right? close at 12? you think there is many other things to do after 12? no wait you think that closing shisha places at 12 will stop anything wrong from happening? you think that there is not chalets, apartments,villas and farms all around Kuwait full of parties, drugs, alcohol and prostitution?

3- Veil and Neqab – Do not tell me that a girl who is veiled or wearing a neqab does not get harassed. Sorry but a reality check, they do. some guys just do not care if they are wearing a veil or not they are woman and they will harass them. also not every veiled girl means she is an angel and will not do anything bad. Trust me, I know.

The problem is not with him really, the problem is with the people who made him reach the parliament. Kuwait has many other problems and some MPs only care about the minor stuff. Look at our hospitals, look at our education system, look at our sewage systems and tell me you do not see anything wrong there. I do not htink we need a parliament if the MPs are just there for nothing.

Most of Kuwait is Muslim, Most of us have brains and am sure many of us know the do’s and dont’s from our Religion. I will not tolerate someone to control my life.

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The Press
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The above did not happen except for our beloved Press. Yes the newspapers. These newspapers who think that publishing about parties and club like places will make them trustworthy. I bet you there are many people who work in these newspapers go to these places in Kuwait.

Its sad to know that even our press helps in making a fuss in the country when we do not need it.

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Kuwait University – Bad University
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I always knew that Kuwait University is the worst university anyone can think of for many reasons. However 2 reasons come to mind

1- The tutors control everything:

Yup the professors in Kuwait university have FULL control of their students and who fails/passes. some people will pass just for the matter of fact the name of the student (or the relation). Others will pass only because they look nice (you know what I mean).

This is totally opposite of what happens in Europe and the USA. Universities their make sure that the professor does not have any prejudice towards anyone, he/she will teach all the students equally and when it comes to names during the exams it will be covered and blind marked.

2- Bad system

My wife has only 3 classes to graduate. However due to the bad system of Kuwait University they have scheduled two of these at the same time and dates! My wife tried to take on of them without attending with the professors approval but both of them did not help whatsoever.

Now my wife is stuck in that place for an entire semester just for one class !!!